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1) I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
2) No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
3) Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
4) A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
5) The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
6) Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
7) To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
8) Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
9) Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
10) Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
11) There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
12) Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
13) Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.


Indeed a gentle reminder to us on our life and friendships.

A little girl had been shopping with her Mom in K-Mart. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence.It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth it has no time to flow downthe spout. We all stood there under the awning and just inside the door of the K-Mart.We waited, some patiently, others irritated because nature messed up their hurried day. I am always mesmerized by rainfall. I got lost in the sound and sight of the heavens washing away the dirt and dust of theworld. Memories of running, splashing so carefree as a child come pouring in as a welcome reprieve from the worries of my day.The little voice was so sweet as it broke the hypnotic trance we were allcaught in.

"Mum, let's run through the rain," she said.
"What?" Mum asked.
"Let's run through the rain!" She repeated.
"No, honey. We'll wait untilit slows down a bit," Mum replied.

This young child waited about another minute and repeated.

"Mum, let's run through the rain."
"We'll get soaked if we do," Mum said.
"No, we won't, Mum. That's not what you said this morning," the young girl said as she tugged at her Mum's arm.
Mum said, "This morning? ... When did Isay we could run through the rain and not get wet?"
"Don't you remember?" Little girl replied. "When you were talking toDaddy about his cancer, you said, 'If God can get us through this, he can get us through anything!"

The entire crowd stopped dead silent. I swear you couldn't hear anything but the rain. We all stood silently. No one came or left in the next few minutes. Mum paused and thought for a moment about what she would say. Now some would laugh it off and scold her for being silly. Some might even ignore what was said. But this was a moment of affirmation in a young child's life. A time when innocent trust can be nurtured so that it will bloom into faith.

"Honey, you are absolutely right. Let's run through the rain. If GOD let's us get wet, well maybe we just needed washing," Mum said.

Then off they ran. We all stood watching, smiling and laughing as they darted past the cars and yes, through the puddles. They held their shopping bags over their heads just in case. They got soaked. But they were followed by a few who screamed and laughed like children all the way to their cars. And yes, I did. I ran. I got wet. I needed washing.

Circumstances or people can take away your material possessions, they can take away your money, and they can take away your health. But no one canever take away your precious memories. So, don't forget to make time and take the opportunities to make memories (happy ones please) everyday. Making a "living" is not the same thing as making a "life".



Long ago, there lived a King. This King should have been contented with his life, given all the riches and luxuries he had. However, this was not the case! The King always found himself wondering why he just never seemed content with his life. Sure, he had the attention of everyone wherever he went, attended fancy dinners and parties, but somehow, he still felt something was lacking and he couldn't put his finger on it. One day, the King had woken up earlier than usual to stroll around his palace. He entered his huge living room and came to a stop when he heard someone happily singing away ... following this singing ... he saw that one of the servants was singing and had a very contented look on his face. This fascinated the King and he summoned this man to his chambers. The man, his servant, entered the King's chambers as ordered. The King asked why he was so happy?

The man replied, "Your Majesty, I am nothing but a servant, but I make enough of a living to keep my wife and children happy. We don't need too much, a roof over our heads and warm food to fill our tummy. My wife and children are my inspiration, they are content with whatever little I bring home. I am happy because my family is happy."

Hearing this, the King dismissed the servant and summoned his Personal Assistant to his chambers. The King related his personal anguish about his feelings and then related the story of the servant to his Personal Assistant, hoping that somehow he will be able to come up with some reasoning that, here was a King who could have anything he wished for at a snap of his fingers and yet was not contented, whereas his servant, having so little, was extremely contented. The Personal Assistant listened attentively and came to a conclusion.

He said "Your Majesty, I believe that the servant has not been made part of The 99 Club."
"The 99 Club? And what exactly is that?" the King inquired.
To which the Assistant replied, "Your Majesty, to truly know what The 99 Club is, you will have to do the following ... place 99 Gold coins in a bag and leave it at this servant's doorstep, you will then understand what The 99 Club is."

That very same evening, the King arranged for 99 Gold coins to be placed in a bag at the servant's doorstep. Although he was slightly hesitant and he thought he should have put 100 Gold coins into the bag, but since his assistant had advised him to put 99, that is what he did. The servant was just stepping out of his house when he saw a bag at his doorstep. Wondering about its contents, he took it into his house and opened the bag. When he opened the bag, he let out a great big shout of joy ...Gold Coins ... so many of them. He could hardly believe it. He called his wife to show her the coins. He then took the bag to a table and emptied it out and began to count the coins. Doing so, he realised that there were 99 coins and he thought it was an odd number so he counted again, and again and again only to come to the same conclusion... 99 Gold Coins. He began to wonder, what could have happened to that last 1 coin? For no one would leave 99 coins. He began to search his entire house, looked around his backyard for hours, not wanting to lose out on that one coin. Finally, exhausted, he decided that he was going to have to work harder than ever to make up for that 1 Gold coin to make his entire collection an even 100 Gold Coins. He got up the next morning, in an extremely horrible mood, shouting at the children and his wife for his delay, not realising that he had spent most of the night conjuring ways of working hard so that he had enough money to buy himself that gold coin. He went to work as usual - only not in his usual best mood, singing happily - as he grumpily did his daily errands. Seeing the man's attitude change so drastically, the King was puzzled. He promptly summoned his assistant to his chambers. The King related his thoughts about the servant and once again, his assistant listened. The King could not believe that the servant who until yesterday had been singing away and was happy and content with his life had taken a sudden change of attitude, even though he should have been happier after receiving the gold coins.

To this the assistant replied "Ah! but your Majesty, the servant has now officially joined The 99 Club." He explained. "The 99 Club is just a name given to those people who have everything but yet are never contented, therefore they are always working hard and striving for that extra 1 to round it out to 100! We have so much to be thankful for and we can live with very little in our lives, but the minute we are given something bigger and better, we want even more! We are not the same happy contented person we used to be, we want more and more and by wanting more and more we don't realise the price we pay for it. We lose our sleep, our happiness, we hurt the people around us just as a price to pay for our growing needs and desires. That is what joining the 99 Club is all about."

Hearing this the King decided that from that day onwards, he was going to start appreciating all the little things in life. Striving for more is always good, but let's not strive so hard and for so much that we lose all those near and dear to our hearts, we shouldn't compromise our happiness for moments of luxuries!

priceless... (重编)

一早起来头痛要死。。。因为前晚喝的烂醉回家。

强迫挣开眼。床头放了一杯水跟几颗头痛药。起身后又看到衣服已烫好，叠好在床边。

实在太反常了。。。决定起身看一看房子。

还会有什么奇怪的事呢？

起身把药吃了，发现有张字条。。。

“亲爱的~我出去买菜了~你的早餐已在餐桌上~趁热吃吧~爱你哦~~~~ ”

一头雾水走进厨房，果然看到热腾腾的早餐在桌上。。。

对吃着早餐的女儿问：

“昨晚到底发生什么事？”

女儿回答：

“你凌晨三点跌跌撞撞大吼大叫回了家，把几个家具打破踹烂，然后又撞上走廊墙壁送了自己黑眼圈。”

越听越不明白。。。

“那为何家里给打扫得那么干净？你妈竟然还做早餐给我呢？”

女儿恍然大悟说：

“噢~~你问这个？？妈看你烂醉回家，一肚子火把你拉到房里把脏衣服换掉，结果脱你裤子时你大声吼了一句。。。”

喂！小姐！你滚远一点！我已经结婚了！

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把自己灌醉 --- $$$$$

坏掉的家具 --- $$$$$$$

早餐 --- $$$

说对了话 --- 无价！！

只要你开心就好 （重编）

每天乘搭公车上下班，来回通勤时间约莫近二小时，有时人少，可坐在位置上欣赏窗外的风景；人多时，也只能慢慢的挤回家，但这时，往往身旁其他乘客的对话总会不时地传到耳边。

前日往回家的公车上，起初乘客不多，转程靠站时，乘客顿时多了起来。一对上班族男女恰巧在我身边，吸引了我的目光。可能因为人多，男的不时地将手臂围住女的，并轻声地问：“累不累？待会想吃些什么？”

只见女的不耐烦地回答：“我已经够烦了，吃什么都还不先决定，每次都要问我。”

男的一脸无辜的低下了头，而后说了令我印象深刻的话：“让你决定是因为希望能够陪你吃你喜欢吃的东西，然后看到你满足的笑容，把今天工作的不愉快暂时忘掉。我的能力不足，你工作上所受的委屈我没办法帮你，我所能做得也只有这样。”

女的听了后，满怀愧疚地说声对不起。男得这才似乎重燃信心般说：“没关系，只要你开心就好。”

而后亲吻了女的头发。公车到站，下车前再回头看看这对情侣，男的依旧保护着心爱的人。

这样的情景，让我觉得自己今天同样在工作上有些不愉快，如果没有听到这一段对话，回家后的我，可能也是一幅全世界都对不起我的臭脸面对心爱的人，只在乎自己的委屈，却忽视对方的感受，不自觉的伤害最亲密的人。

所以在踏进家门时，我告诉自己，难道我要像公车上那位女孩一样忍心将自己的不满委屈带给身旁的人吗？不，我想我现在应该做的是别再把工作上的情绪发泄在爱人身上，破坏了最亲密的关系，并且主动给自己一个微笑。

每一株玫瑰都有刺，
正如每一个人的性格中，
都有你不能容忍的部分。

爱护一朵玫瑰，
并不是得努力把它的刺根除，
只能学习如何不被他的刺刺伤，
还有。。。
如何不让自己的刺刺伤心爱的人。。。

很多事情，
错过了就没有了。
缘分也是。。。